Wanted : True-blue

I am beginning to think that they are on the brink of becoming extinct. The true-blue, anyway. True, some varieties exist in my world but the quality is not quite the same.

I can count with my fingers those who subscribe to the unwritten code. In fact, the criterion has evolved. Much like so many things in life. It has to, in order to be up to date to the changing times. It doesn’t signify though that change means it is for the better.

I often look for this quality among colleagues, relatives, friends, and more so, aspirants. But most of the time, I do not succeed. Yet, I cannot completely put the blame on their side. My category demanded too much parity that it has become tougher for them to delineate between equality and chivalry.

But what do I mean by the description “true-blue”? They are not those who open the doors, give up their seats, lift a heavy load, safeguard those who cross the street, and so many little gentlemanly acts, but directed only to those they woo. No, the true-blues are much better than. Why? For they behave in this thoughtful manner to everyone and anyone around them. To those who require some form of assistance. To those who could use some courteous deeds.

Lest I might be accused of simplifying things too much, let me supplement these conditions. They are concerned with your well-being, even willing to travel far to make sure you safely reach your destination. If unable to accompany you, they would surely check up on you. Even if they tease you extensively, their words still demonstrate respect and consideration. You would see their deference towards the elderly, especially to those who gave birth to them. There is the constant impression that they are willing, in any way possible, to lend a hand. To a girl or a boy, to the young and old, to strangers or pals, and to pets or humans.

I am finding it hard to describe in detail what it is that I search for. But I think everyone knows what it is I am trying to portray. Unfortunately, their race is dwindling. Pity. For it is one of our deciding factors.

I can count with my fingers the ones I truly consider as true-blue. I am hoping there could be more of them. There is still hope, I know. Still, I ask, where are the true-blues?